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And the ones that don’t expect sex just kind of fade away. I’m 45 now and I never experienced this type of scenario until just this year. Now that I’m older, is this all I can expect from a man at this stage of my life?
I’ve asked these men WHY they expect sex by the third date. –Patti Dear Patti, You’re certainly not the first to feel this way, my friend.
Take Interest In The Things They Love Whether it’s a sports team, activity or their new favorite band; you should take interest in their interests.
Let him ramble on about his quarterback, even if you don’t love that team (or sport all together).
Society says after three dates, your grandmother says after marriage, your penis says right now…but when’s the actual right time?
Well, thanks to science, we now know exactly how long you should wait, for optimal happiness.
Sending out a simple text asking how their day has been goes a long way in getting you to the top of their list.2.
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When you start dating someone new, there’s always the question of when you should have sex for the first time.
What a man wants is not necessarily to have sex on the third date, but to have some physical contact that may, someday, lead to sex. If he’s been talking to you for a week, plans a date, picks you up, takes you out, grabs the check, drives you home, and is also attracted to you, you can be sure that if he’s at all confident, he’s going to make a first move. Sex isn’t all or nothing and as long as you can take him around the bases slowly, you can buy yourself enough time to figure out if you want to be exclusive with each other. Make him feel like a sexually perverted sleazebag for making a move on you and you shouldn’t be too surprised if he doesn’t feel good about his prospects on the next date.
I have a lot of trouble with this instant-sex expectation, too (my gut reaction is usually more like: NO, OF COURSE I AM NOT GOING TO GET NAKED WITH YOU, STRANGE PERSON I BARELY KNOW!!
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Ask Them Questions Too This seems like a simple one. You wouldn’t believe how many guys complain to me about how little interest women take in them during their date.